My stretched ears experience - THE ALL WRONG WAY!

Hey guys! ♥

In this post I want to show you everything about my stretched ears experience ~

It is definitely the WRONG way!! So DON'T DO THiS!!

After this post, I'll prepare another post about my ears, trying to show you, how you're supposed to do it, at least in a better way.. The opinions about "the right way" to do it vary a lot ~

In June I tried to stretch my ear lobe to 8mm/0g again, but it was much too fast!

I just pushed it through and changed to my flesh tunnel immidiately..

After this it was wracked and looked like this:

It already healed a bit, 'cause I reacted with much care right after it,

but as you can see, it has splited a bit..

But that wasn't my only fault about it..

It is a long story of wrong decisions and the wrong method..

I want to show you what happened all the way.

I started stretching my left ear lobe in September 2009, when I just turned 15

That was the point where it was already wrong..

In following I'm gonna sum up

- what I used

- what was generally wrong

Here is a picture of what I used to stretched:

1. normal sized earring with a thicker snail-part        7. 6mm/2g snail

2. needle of a regular compass                                 8. 3mm/8g snail

3. Hello Kitty safety pin                                           9. 8mm/0g snail

   4. 2mm/12g snail                                                    10. 8mm/0g tunnel

   5. 4mm/6g snail                                                     11. 6mm/2g tunnel

6. 4mm/6g tunnel                                                                          

What was wrong:

- the things I've used we're all acrylc

- I used non-piercing materials (the needle and such)

- I didn't kept it clean, never ~ nothing

- I stretched way too fast, and with way too short waiting periods

- bought the things in a shop which wasn't a piercing shop

- I did it without my parents allowence

- my lobe was shot with a gun/wasn't actual pierced

(back then when I was 4 years old)

- I skiped several sizes

The following part will explain it detailed

(I warn you, it's a long story and I include many pictures, to make it clear)

That thing in my lobe isn't even a expander snail.. It was a normal sized earring with was supposed to look like one. I tried to get the thick part through my lobe, but it didn't worked at the beginning, so I started to pull at it to stretch it out a bit more.. Somewhen it went through

Later I did that with a more heavy Hello Kitty safety pin, which had a similar size like the earring before.

And then I changed to a needle of a regular compass, the kind you use in math class.

Then, I decided to buy real stretching spirals, so I bought a white arcylic spiral..

Additionaly I have to say, that the shop where I my first ones, isn't a real piercing shop, but just sells some expanders/tapers and plugs. And they always failed to hand out the right size (what I found out years later).

So at first I asked for a 2mm/12g, but I'm pretty sure that I got a 1mm or 1.2mm/16g..

The next spiral I bought at that shop was supposed to be 3mm/8g but was a 4mm/6g -.-

 In following I had an on-off relationship with my stretched ear.. I took it off, went back to a smaler size or stretched it again ~

1mm or 1.2mm/16g

4mm/6g

1mm or 1.2mm/16g

And then I stretched the first lobe to 4mm/6g again and the second lobe hole-thing to 1mm or 1.2mm/16g..

And the first to (how I thought) 5mm (it was 6mm) and the second still 1mm or 1.2mm/16g

5mm (6mm/) and second on 3mm/14g

And then I had to take out the 3mm/14g 'cause as you can see, the inner part of the spiral went into my flesh 'cause it was a too small diameter..

You can't see it well, but I wore 5mm/4g (6mm/2g) and 1,6mm/2mm (14g/12g)

Still 5mm/4g (6mm/2g) and took out the second

Then I had to take it out immidiately 'cause my father saw my ear and asked me, if this is stretched.. And I wasn't allowed to do it and my parents never knew, so I had to take it out ~

normal earrings

4mm/6g

5mm/4g (6mm/2g)

My aunt, who also has stretched ears, gave me her 8mm/0g snail

8mm/0g snail                                     8mm/0g tunnel

My boyfriend bought me an 6mm/2g glass plug on the Tattoo Convention Berlin 2013,
which I decided to wear on my 19th birthday 

After that, I changed back to 6mm/2g tunnels only, cause I've always been afraid, that the 8mm/0g could be too much for my lobe

Back to June 2014

I took the tunnel off immidiately when I felt that something was wrong and saw that it was splited a litttle.

I cleaned it as good as I could, but only had one single piercing cleansing thing at home.

I took the jewelry out after that, and left it like this ~

I hoped that it would close, when I keep it off for some weeks/months.

It did, but not completely.

(it was around a 3mm/8g, but I'm gonna tell you this in the next post about my stretched ears ~)

I'll say it once again..

DON'T DO IT LIKE THAT!



I'm back! (trying to ~) and my Blogs 2nd anniversary!

Hey guys! ♥

I'm sorry for being absent the past.. I don't know how many months it was now.. What I know is, that is was a long time ~

Many things happened in my life, most of them we're horrible or hard to deal with..

But I'm gonna tell you, later!

First I want to say, I try to do more blog posts from now on again!

I'm not sure, if I'm gonna be able to.. but I'll try!

And my blog is now 2 years old!

I started it around halloween time, my favorite 'holiday'! ♥

Well.. first start with my last year of school

Actually I don't want to talk about it, which will be explained later..

It was soo stressful, and I had to learn a lot, and eventhough we haven't had to go to school anymore for more time to learn, it was a horrible time.

I really had to get a job, but never got accepted for one, so that I always had to keep looking and writing applications and ask for a job everywhere I went to..

And learning wasn't very easy with the continueing fights and stress I have at home with my parents..

But, as you may can see in it:

I'm mentally not able to live with my parents anymore, but for moving out, you need money.. I don't have any! So no escape from it!

In the end I managed all my final exams and ended up with 2,3 (I definitely could have been better if I'd been concentrated more).

After I knew my end-grade, everything turned worse..

The day after we got our grades, I started having terrible stomache aches, which dued the whole night, so that I wasn't able to sleep..

I was so in pain and threw up again and again..

I'll keep it short, to not to make this to long..

In the afternoon, I decided I want my mum to bring me over to the hospital.

I got an operation the next evening/night, 'cause they realized, that they need to hurry.

I still can't realize it..

I could have died that night, if they would haven't done it!

I don't want to talk about every detail of what I had. It was the horriblest time and thing that I've ever experienced..

(BTW I've got a hospital phobia since I was 4 years old ~)

I may talk about it more detailed (maybe even in a video someday), but now I'm still to depressed about all what happened.

In the end it came out, that it was the stress, that destroyed my body over the past years, slowly.

Soo.. you know.. I wasn't really able to do a thing..

Beginning of August I went to Turkey with my aunt, eventhough I wasn't fully recovered from everything.

It was a nice trip, and even though I wanted it to end the last days we where there, I never wanted to go back at all.. I knew there's the real life waiting for me to manage it.

When I came back I just decided to get my septum pierced!
Got it some hours after I arrived by plane even ~ I wanted to get a piercing for so long!
And after all that shit that happened the months before, I decided just to do it!

It's not my favorite piercing to get 
but getting my lip piercing two days before 
my birthday would have been very bad ~

Then I had a lot of stress again because my birthday was about to come up soon ~
And I celebrated it with some close friends

The Satruday after I went to Cologne with my boyfriend to visit the gamescom ~
Another stressful thing, since it was kinda spontaneous O:
But there's not much to tell about at all ~

I met lovely Mimi Darko ♥ whiiiep~

Soo.. Yeah.. now you know the reason for me being inactive for so long ~

(Again sorry for those who wanted to see a new post!~)

What I'm currently doing I'm gonna tell you in another post! ♥

See ya, little faeries! ♥

how it looks like when I'm not wearing my piercings

 

Here is the description:

On Tuesday I had to go to the MRI to get new oicture of my stupid hurting knee again. Thatfor I had to take out all metal of my body, so I took out all of my piercings of my ears and my belly. I only let my new tragus in because I'm still not allowed to take it off or even touch it. The picture was taken right after the MRI when I had to dress up again. Thought it looks awesome, because I never had all my pircings together like this. But now I think I want more! haha!

finally got my tragus pierced

 

Yesterday, when I came back home from my boyfreinds place, I planned to go to get a new piercing with my best friend Väni. We didn't do it for so long! Got my last piercings end of May 2011.. That's much too long. I love piercings so much! So we met aroud 4 pm. When we had to wait we got a bit nervous, like you always do, when you don't now what will happen. But when we had to sit in front of the piercer this feeling was gone. We felt good. First one was Väni. She got a small cute septum in her small cute nose. I really like how it looks! Happy that she decided to do it. It was her wish for so many years. Then, I got my tragus piered. And that was MY wish for many years! I was afraid that my tragus is to small, but the piercer even said 'wow, it's very huge. We could even stretch it xD'. Lucky me xD I'm so happy that I finally got it! *~* I love it so much! We we where very happy that we finally visited a piercer after such a long time. We already planned for a long time, too. On the picture you can see on the left me with my new piercing x3 And on the right is a photo of my complete right ear with all my current piercings. The only difference now is, that my aunt came today and gave me a 8mm stretcher so that I can stretch it more 'cause she gave me a 8mm plug from the tattoo convention we visited together. So now, I'm wearing a bigger stretcher :3

 

HAPPY EASTER! ♥

 

(finally last post for today xD)